Getting the Kids Involved in Keeping Your Home Clutter-free
True story: My husband and I tried this out with our toddler, Frankie. He truly thought she would let go of some of her stuffed animals. I knew better. We presented each one to her and asked “Do you need this?” And, while maintaining solid eye contact, each time she replied with a firm “yes.”
Let’s be honest: kids are hoarders. They love all their items and have no concept of why their parents want them to get rid of their stuff or declutter.
What we can do as parents is edit and organize their space(s) and work to teach them the skills needed to make good decisions on what to keep and what to donate. Start by removing broken or unused items or any that they have outgrown. Once the space is organized, sit with your kids and see if they can pick 1-3 items to donate. This way it isn’t an overwhelming process and they can understand your request fully.
We need to give clear direction when we tell our kids to “tidy up” or clean their space. I know when I was growing up I had plenty of toys but nothing compared to what kids have these days. Managing their inventory and the mess is important.
Create clear zones for books, stuffed animals, blocks and so on. They don't need to color code their books; they just need to put their books away. When asking them to tidy up their space, be specific: “please put all your books away on the bookcase” or “please put all your blocks in the bin.” With clear instructions they will understand the task and then have the opportunity to choose whether they listen or not.
The key is to build responsibility for their play space and rooms so they can apply this down the road when they are in their college dorm sharing a space with a roommate. These small skills will have a positive impact on them for the rest of their lives.
Pro Tip: Before holidays and birthdays make sure you take an opportunity with them to edit out some toys to open up space. When you make this a habit, your home will continue to feel light and organized. This also makes it easier to gift toys to friends with younger children or families in need.
Additional Resources:
4 Easy Steps to Organize Kids Toys (from Low Lift Fun)
